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Chapter 42
ﻪﻣاﺮآإ بﺪﻨﻳ ﻦﻣ ﺮﺋﺎﺳو ﺔﺟوﺰﻟاو برﺎﻗﻷاو مﻷاو بﻷا ءﺎﻗﺪﺻأ ﺮﺑ ﻞﻀﻓ بﺎﺑ
Excellence in doing Good to the Friends of Parents and other Relatives
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لﺎﻗ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻲﺒﻨﻟا نَأ ﺎﻤﻬﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ﺮﻤﻋ ﻦﺑا ﻦﻋ
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ُﻞُﺟﱠﺮﻟا َﻞِﺼﻳ ْنَأ ﱢﺮﺒﻟا ﱠﺮﺑَأ نِإ
ﱠدُو
ِﻪﻴِﺑَأ
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341.
`Abdullah bin `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: The Prophet (PBUH) said,
"The finest act of
goodness is that a person should treat kindly the loved ones of his father".
[Muslim].
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ﻦﻋ ٍرﺎﻨﻳد ﻦﺑ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا ِﺪﺒﻋ ﻦﻋو
ﺔﱠﻜﻣ ﻖﻳِﺮﻄِﺑ ُﻪﻴِﻘﻟ ِباﺮْﻋَﻷا َﻦِﻣ ًﻼُﺟر ﱠنَأ ﺎﻤﻬﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ﺮﻤﻋ ﻦﺑ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﺪﺒﻋ
ُﻦﺑا لﺎﻗ ، ِﻪِﺳْأر ﻰﻠﻋ ْﺖﻧﺎآ ًﺔﻣﺎﻤِﻋ ُﻩﺎَﻄْﻋَأو ،ُﻪُﺒَآْﺮﻳ َنﺎَآ ٍرﺎﻤﺣ ﻰﻠﻋ ُﻪﻠﻤﺣو ، َﺮﻤُﻋ ُﻦْﺑ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُﺪْﺒَﻋ ِﻪْﻴﻠَﻋ ﻢﱠﻠﺴَﻓ ،
ٍرﺎَﻨﻳِد :
ُﻪﻟ ﺎﻨﻠُﻘﻓ
:
ﱠﻧِإ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا َﻚﺤَﻠْﺻَأ
ِﺮﻴِﺴﻴﻟﺎِﺑ َنْﻮَﺿْﺮﻳ ْﻢُهو ُباﺮْﻋَﻷا ْﻢﻬ
.
ﺮﻤﻋ ُﻦﺑ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُﺪﺒﻋ لﺎﻘﻓ
:
ًاّدو نﺎَآ اﺬه ﱠنِإ
لﻮﻘﻳ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا لﻮﺳر ُﺖْﻌِﻤﺳ ﻲﱢﻧِإو ، ﻪﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر بﺎﻄﺨﻟا ﻦﺑ َﺮَﻤُﻌِﻟ
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ُﺔﻠِﺻ ﱢﺮِﺒﻟا ﱠﺮﺑَأ ﱠنِإ
ِﻪﻴِﺑَأ ﱢدُو َﻞْهَأ ِﻞُﺟﱠﺮﻟا
«.
بﻮُآُر ﱠﻞﻣ اذإ ِﻪْﻴﻠﻋ ُحﱠوﺮَﺘَﻳ ٌرﺎﻤِﺣ ُﻪَﻟ َنﺎَآ َﺔﱠﻜَﻣ ﻰﻟإ جﺮﺧ اذِإ َنﺎَآ ُﻪﱠﻧَأ ﺮَﻤُﻋ ﻦﺑا ﻦﻋ رﺎﻨﻳد ﻦﺑا ﻦﻋ ٍﺔﻳاور ﻲﻓو
لﺎﻘﻓ ، ﱞﻲﺑاﺮْﻋَأ ِﻪِﺑ ﱠﺮَﻣ ْذإ ِرﺎَﻤِﺤﻟا َﻚِﻟذ ﻰﻠﻋ ﺎﻣْﻮﻳ ﻮُه ﺎَﻨْﻴﺒَﻓ ، ُﻪﺳْأر ﺎﻬِﺑ ﱡﺪُﺸﻳ ٌﺔﻣﺎﻤِﻋو ، ِﺔَﻠِﺣاﱠﺮﻟا
:
ﻼُﻓ َﺖْﺴَﻟَأ
َﻦْﺑ َن
؟ ٍنﻼُﻓ
لﺎﻗ :
ﻰَﻠﺑ :
لﺎﻘﻓ ، َرﺎَﻤِﺤﻟا ُﻩﺎَﻄْﻋَﺄَﻓ
:
، اﺬه ْﺐَآْرا
لﺎﻗو َﺔﻣﺎﻤِﻌﻟا ُﻩﺎﻄْﻋَأو
:
، َﻚَﺳْأر ﺎَﻬِﺑ ْدُﺪْﺷا
ُﻪَﻟ لﺎﻘﻓ
ِﻪِﺑﺎﺤْﺻَأ ُ
ﺾْﻌَﺑ
:
ُﺸﺗ َﺖْﻨُآ ًﺔَﻣﺎﻤِﻋو ، ِﻪْﻴﻠﻋ ُحﱠوﺮَﺗ َﺖْﻨآ ًارﺎﻤِﺣ ﱢﻲﺑاﺮْﻋَﻷا اَﺬه َﺖْﻴَﻄْﻋَأ ، َﻚَﻟ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﺮَﻔَﻏ
؟َﻚَﺳْأر ﺎَﻬِﺑ ﱡﺪ
لﺎﻘﻓ :
ُلﻮﻘُﻳ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا َلﻮﺳر ُﺖْﻌِﻤَﺳ ﻲﱢﻧِإ
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ِﻪﻴِﺑَأ ﱢدُو َﻞْهَأ ُﻞُﺟﱠﺮﻟا َﻞِﺼَﻳ ْنَأ ﱢﺮِﺒﻟا ﱢﺮَﺑَأ ْﻦِﻣ ْنِإ
َﻰﱢﻟﻮُﻳ ْنَأ ﺪْﻌَﺑ
«
، ﻪﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ﺮﻤُﻌِﻟ ًﺎﻘﻳِﺪَﺻ َنﺎَآ ُﻩﺎَﺑَأ ﱠنِإو
وﱢﺮﻟا ِﻩِﺬه ىور
ﻢﻠﺴﻣ ﺎَﻬﱠﻠُآ ِتﺎﻳا
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342.
`Abdullah bin Dinar reported: `Abdullah bin `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) met a bedouin on his
way to Makkah, he greeted him, offered him to mount the donkey he was riding and gave him the turban he was
wearing on his head. Ibn Dinar said to him: "May Allah make you pious! Bedouins can be satisfied with anything
you give them (i.e., what you have given the bedouin is too much). Upon this, `Abdullah bin `Umar said, the father
of this man was one of `Umar's friends whom he loved best, and I heard Messenger of Allah saying,
"The finest act
of goodness is the good treatment of someone whom one's father loves".
Another narration goes: When `Abdullah bin `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) set out to Makkah, he kept a
donkey with him to ride when he would get tired from the riding of the camel, and had a turban which he tied round
his head. One day, as he was riding the donkey, a bedouin happened to pass by him. He (`Abdullah bin `Umar) said,
"Aren't you so-and-so?'' The bedouin said, "Yes". He (`Abdullah bin `Umar) gave him his donkey and his turban and
said, "Ride this donkey, and tie this turban round your head". Some of his companions said, "May Allah forgive you,
you gave to this bedouin the donkey which you enjoyed to ride for change, and the turban which you tied round your
head".`Abdullah bin `Umar said,"I heard Messenger of Allah (PBUH) saying,
`The finest act of goodness is the kind
treatment of a person to the loved ones of his father after his death,
' and the father of this person was a friend of
`Umar (May Allah be pleased with him).
[Muslim].
Commentary:
This Hadith teaches that after the death of one's parents, one should maintain contact with their
friends and treat them nicely. Besides being a great virtue it is warranted by the needs for showing compassion to
relatives. To forget friends of one's parents and break contact with them is condemned by the Shari`ah.
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لﺎﻗ ﻪﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ﱢيِﺪِﻋﺎﱠﺴﻟا َﺔَﻌﻴِﺑر ِﻦﺑ ِﻚﻟﺎﻣ ﻦﻴﺴﻟا ﺢﺘﻓو ةﺰﻤﻬﻟا ﻢﻀﺑ ﺪْﻴَﺳُأ ﻲﺑأ ﻦﻋو
:
َﺑ
ُﻦْﺤَﻧ ﺎﻨْﻴ
َلﺎﻘﻓ ﺔﻤَﻠَﺳ ﻲﻨﺑ ْﻦِﻣ ٌﻞُﺟر ُﻩَءﺎﺟ ذإ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا لﻮﺳر َﺪْﻨِﻋ ٌسﻮُﻠُﺟ
:
ﱢﺮِﺑ ﻦِﻣ ﻰﻘﺑ ْﻞَه ﻪﱠﻠﻟا َلﻮﺳرﺎﻳ
لﺎﻘﻓ ؟ ﺎَﻤِﻬِﺗْﻮَﻣ َﺪﻌَﺑ ِﻪِﺑ ﺎَﻤُهﱡﺮﺑَأ ٌءﻰﺷ ﱠيﻮﺑَأ
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ﻤُﻬَﻟ ُرﺎَﻔْﻐِﺘْﺳﻻاو ، ﺎَﻤِﻬْﻴَﻠﻋ ةَﻼﱠﺼﻟا ، ْﻢَﻌَﻧ
، ﺎﻤِهِﺪْﻬَﻋ ُذﺎﻔْﻧِإو ، ﺎ
ﺎﻤﻬﻘﻳِﺪَﺻ ُماَﺮَآِإو ، ﺎَﻤِﻬِﺑ ﱠﻻِإ ُﻞَﺻﻮُﺗ ﻻ ﻲﺘﻟا ِﻢِﺣﱠﺮﻟا ُﺔﻠِﺻو
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دواد ﻮﺑأ ﻩاور
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343.
Abu Usaid Malik bin Rabi`ah As-Sa`idi (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: We were sitting with
Messenger of Allah (PBUH) when a man of Banu Salamah came to him and asked, "O Messenger of Allah! Is there
any obedience to parents left that I can show to them after their death?'' He (PBUH) replied,
"Yes, to pray for them,
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