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Commentary:
1. Gathering of all the relatives is not necessary at the time of someone's death. However, their participation in the
funeral prayer is Mustahab Fard Kifayah (a desirable collective duty upon all Muslims; but which is sufficient or
equivalent to all having performed it if it is performed by only some of them).
2. The desire of the relatives that at the time of someone's death some pious people should be present is quite
genuine so that the agonizing process of death is made easy by their prayers.
3. It is lawful that a trustworthy person is made to take an oath and it is essential for the trustee to fulfill it as it
increases the mutual trust and love.
4. To shed tears on someone's death, and to advice the relatives of the deceased for patience and accountability are
permissible acts.
5. Expression of kindness and love is a gift from Allah and means to gain His Compassion, while deprivation from it
is callousness.
َلﺎَﻗ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا َلﻮُﺳَر ﱠنَأ ُﻪْﻨَﻋ ُﻪﱠﻠﻟا َﻲِﺿَر ٍﺐْﻴَﻬُﺻ ْﻦَﻋَو : » ُﻪَﻟ َنﺎَآَو ،ْﻢُﻜَﻠْﺒﻗ َنﺎَآ ْﻦَﻤِﻴﻓ ٌﻚِﻠَﻣ َنﺎَآ
ﻚِﻠَﻤْﻠِﻟ َلﺎَﻗ َﺮِﺒَآ ﺎﱠﻤَﻠَﻓ ، ٌﺮِﺣﺎَﺳ : ﱠﻲَﻟِإ ْﺚَﻌﺑﺎَﻓ ُتْﺮِﺒَآ ْﺪَﻗ ﻲﱢﻧِإ َنﺎَآَو ، ُﻪُﻤﱢﻠَﻌﻳ ًﺎﻣَﻼُﻏ ِﻪْﻴَﻟِإ َﺚَﻌَﺒَﻓ ، َﺮْﺤﱢﺴﻟا ُﻪْﻤﱢﻠَﻋُأ ًﺎﻣَﻼُﻏ
ﱠﺮﻟﺎﺑ ﱠﺮَﻣ َﺮِﺣﺎﱠﺴﻟا ﻰَﺗَأ اَذِإ َنﺎَآَو ، ُﻪﺒَﺠْﻋَﺄﻓ ُﻪﻣَﻼَآ َﻊِﻤَﺳَو ِﻪْﻴَﻟِإ َﺪَﻌَﻘَﻓ ،ٌﺐِهاَر َﻚَﻠَﺳ اَذِإ ِﻪِﻘﻳﺮَﻃ ﻲﻓ ، ﻪْﻴَﻟِإ َﺪَﻌَﻗَو ﺐِها
َﺮِﺣﺎﱠﺴﻟا ﻰَﺗَأ اَذِﺈَﻓ لﺎﻘﻓ ِﺐِهاﱠﺮﻟا ﻰَﻟِإ َﻚِﻟَذ ﺎَﻜَﺸَﻓ ، ُﻪَﺑَﺮَﺿ : ْﻞُﻘَﻓ ﺮِﺣﺎﱠﺴﻟا َﺖﻴِﺸَﺧ اَذِإ : َﺖﻴِﺸَﺧ اَذِإَو ، ﻲﻠْهَأ ﻲِﻨَﺴَﺒﺣ
ْﻞُﻘَﻓ َﻚَﻠْهَأ : ُﺮﺣﺎﱠﺴﻟا ﻲِﻨَﺴَﺒَﺣ .
لﺎﻘﻓ سﺎﱠﻨﻟا ﺖَﺴَﺒَﺣ ْﺪﻗ ﺔَﻤﻴِﻈﻋ ٍﺔﱠﺑاد ﻰَﻠَﻋ ﻰَﺗأ ْذإ َﻚِﻟَذ ﻰَﻠَﻋ ﻮُه ﺎَﻤَﻨْﻴﺒَﻓ : َﻠْﻋأ َمْﻮﻴﻟا ُﺐهاﱠﺮﻟا مأ ﻞَﻀْﻓأ ُﺮِﺣﺎﱠﺴﻟا ُﻢ
َلﺎﻘﻓ ًاﺮَﺠﺣ َﺬَﺧﺄﻓ ؟ َﻞﻀْﻓأ : َﻲِﻀْﻤﻳ ﻰﱠﺘﺣ ﺔﱠﺑاﱠﺪﻟا ِﻩِﺬَه ْﻞُﺘﻗﺎﻓ ِﺮِﺣﺎﱠﺴﻟا ِﺮْﻣَأ ْﻦِﻣ َﻚْﻴَﻟإ ﱠﺐَﺣأ ﺐهاﱠﺮﻟا ُﺮْﻣأ نﺎآ ْنإ ﱠﻢُﻬﻠﻟا
ُﻩﺮَﺒﺧﺄﻓ ﺐهاﱠﺮﻟا ﻰَﺗﺄﻓ ،ُسﺎﱠﻨﻟا ﻰﻀَﻣو ﺎﻬَﻠَﺘﻘﻓ ﺎهﺎﻣَﺮﻓ ، ُسﺎﱠﻨﻟا . ا ُﻪﻟ لﺎﻘﻓ ُﺐهاﱠﺮﻟ : ﻲﱢﻨﻣ ُﻞﻀْﻓأ َمْﻮﻴﻟا َﺖْﻧَأ ﱠﻲﻨُﺑ ْىأ
َﺔﻤْآﻷا ُئﺮْﺒﻳ ُمﻼُﻐﻟا َنﺎآو ، ﱠﻲﻠﻋ ﱠلُﺪﺗ َﻼَﻓ َﺖﻴﻠُﺘْﺑا ِنﺈﻓ ، ﻰَﻠَﺘْﺒُﺘﺳ َﻚﱠﻧِإو ، ىَرَأ ﺎَﻣ َكﺮْﻣأ ْﻦِﻣ َﻎَﻠﺑ ْﺪﻗ ، ، َصﺮﺑﻷاو
ِءاَودﻷا ِﺮِﺋﺎﺳ ْﻦِﻣ سﺎﱠﻨﻟا يواَﺪﻳو . ْﺪﻗ َنﺎآ ِﻚِﻠﻤﻠﻟ ٌﺲﻴِﻠﺟ َﻊﻤَﺴَﻓ لﺎﻘﻓ ٍةَﺮﻴﺜآ َﺎﻳاﺪﻬﺑ ُﻩﺎَﺗﺄﻓ ،َﻰِﻤﻋ : ﻚﻟ ﺎَﻨُﻬه ﺎﻣ
ﷲا ُتْﻮﻋد ﻰَﻟﺎَﻌﺗ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟﺎِﺑ َﺖْﻨﻣﺁ ْنﺈﻓ ،ﻰﻟﺎَﻌﺗ ﷲا ﻲِﻔْﺸﻳ ﺎَﻤﱠﻧِإ ،ًاﺪَﺣأ ﻲِﻔﺷأ ﻻ ﻲﱢﻧإ لﺎﻘﻓ ، ﻲﻨﺘْﻴَﻔﺷ َﺖْﻧأ ْنإ ُﻊَﻤْﺟأ
ﻓ َﻚِﻠَﻤﻟا ﻰَﺗﺄﻓ ، ﻰَﻟﺎَﻌَﺗ ُﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُﻩﺎَﻔﺸﻓ ﻰﻟﺎَﻌﺗ ﻪﱠﻠﻟﺎﺑ َﻦَﻣﺂﻓ ، َكﺎﻔَﺸﻓ ُﻚﻠَﻤﻟا ُﻪَﻟ َلﺎﻘﻓ ُﺲِﻠْﺠﻳ َنﺎآ ﺎﻤآ ِﻪْﻴﻟإ ﺲَﻠَﺠ : ﱠدر ْﻦﻣ
لﺎﻗ ؟كﺮَﺼﺑ ﻚْﻴَﻠﻋ : ﻲﱢﺑر . َلﺎَﻗ : َلﺎَﻗ ،؟ يِﺮْﻴﻏ ﱞبر َﻚﻟو : ﻰَﻠَﻋ ﱠلد ﻰﱠﺘﺣ ُﻪُﺑﱢﺬﻌُﻳ ْلﺰﻳ ْﻢَﻠﻓ ُﻩَﺬَﺧَﺄﻓ ، ﷲا َﻚﱡﺑرو ﻲﱢﺑَر
، ِمَﻼُﻐﻟﺎِﺑ َﺊﺠﻓ ِمَﻼُﻐﻟا ُﻚﻠَﻤﻟا ُﻪﻟ لﺎﻘﻓ : ْﺪﻗ ﱠﻲَﻨُﺑ ْىأ َلﺎﻘﻓ ُﻞَﻌْﻔﺗَو ُﻞﻌْﻔَﺗو َصَﺮﺑﻷاو َﻪَﻤآﻷا ُئﺮْﺒﺗ ﺎَﻣ كِﺮْﺤِﺳ ْﻦﻣ َﻎَﻠَﺑ
: ﱠﺮﻟﺎﺑ ﺊِﺠﻓ ، ِﺐهاﱠﺮﻟا ﻰَﻠَﻋ ﱠلد ﻰﱠﺘﺣ ُﻪُﺑﱢﺬﻌﻳ ْلَﺰﻳ ْﻢَﻠَﻓ ُﻩَﺬَﺧﺄﻓ ،ﻰَﻟﺎَﻌَﺗ ﷲا ﻲﻔْﺸﻳ ﺎﻤﱠﻧإ ، ًاﺪَﺣَأ ﻲﻔْﺷأ ﻻ ﻲﱠﻧِإ ﻞﻴﻘﻓ ِﺐِها
ُﻪَﻟ : ﺑ ﺎﻋَﺪﻓ ، ﻰَﺑﺄﻓ ،َﻚﻨﻳِد ْﻦﻋ ْﻊَﺟرا ﺊِﺟ ﱠﻢُﺛ ، ُﻩﺎﱠﻘﺷ َﻊَﻗو ﻰﱠﺘﺣ ُﻪﱠﻘﺸﻓ ،ِﻪِﺳْأر ِقﺮْﻔﻣ ﻲﻓ ُرﺎَﺸْﻨﻤﻟا ﻊِﺿُﻮﻓ رﺎَﺸْﻨﻤﻟﺎ
ُﻪَﻟ َﻞِﻘﻓ ِﻚﻠَﻤﻟا ِﺲﻴِﻠَﺠﺑ : ، ُﻩﺎﱠﻘﺷ ﻊَﻗو ﻰﱠﺘﺣ ﻪﺑ ُﻪﱠﻘﺸﻓ ، ِﻪِﺳأَر ِقِﺮْﻔﻣ ﻲﻓ ُرﺎَﺸْﻨﻤﻟا َﻊِﺿُﻮﻓ ، ﻰَﺑﺄﻓ َﻚِﻨﻳد ْﻦﻋ ْﻊِﺟرا
ُﻪَﻟ ﻞﻴِﻘﻓ ِمﻼُﻐﻟﺎﺑ ﺊﺟ ﱠﻢُﺛ : ْﻦﻋ ْﻊِﺟرا لﺎﻘﻓ ِﻪِﺑﺎﺤْﺻأ ْﻦﻣ ٍﺮَﻔَﻧ ﻰَﻟِإ ُﻪَﻌﻓَﺪﻓ ، ﻰَﺑﺄﻓ ، َﻚِﻨﻳد : اَﺬَآ ِﻞَﺒﺟ ﻰَﻟِإ ِﻪِﺑ اﻮُﺒهذا
ﻞَﺒَﺠﻟا ِﻪﺑ اوُﺪﻌﺼﻓ ﻪﺑ اﻮُﺒهﺬﻓ ُﻩﻮﺣَﺮﻃﺎﻓ ﱠﻻِإو ِﻪِﻨﻳد ْﻦﻋ َﻊﺟر ْنﺈﻓ ُﻪﺗورذ ْﻢُﺘﻐﻠﺑ اَذﺈـﻓ ، َﻞﺒﺠﻟا ِﻪِﺑ اوُﺪﻌﺻﺎﻓ اَﺬآو
لﺎﻘﻓ : ﺮﻓ ، ﺖْﺌﺷ ﺎَﻤﺑ ْﻢﻬﻴِﻨﻔآا ﱠﻢُﻬﱠﻠﻟا ُﻚﻠَﻤﻟا ُﻪَﻟ َلﺎﻘﻓ ، ِﻚِﻠَﻤﻟا ﻰَﻟِإ ﻲﺸْﻤﻳ َءﺎَﺟو ، اﻮُﻄﻘَﺴﻓ ُﻞَﺒَﺠﻟا ُﻢﻬِﺑ ﻒَﺟ : ﺎﻣ
َلﺎﻘﻓ ؟ َﻚﺑﺎَﺤﺻَأ َﻞَﻌَﻓ : لﺎﻘﻓ ِﻪِﺑﺎَﺤْﺻأ ْﻦﻣ َﺮَﻔَﻧ ﻰَﻟِإ ُﻪَﻌﻓﺪﻓ ، ﻰَﻟﺎﻌﺗ ﷲا ُﻢِﻬﻴﻧﺎﻔآ : رﻮُﻗﺮُﻗ ﻲﻓ ﻩﻮُﻠﻤﺣﺎﻓ ِﻪِﺑ اﻮُﺒهذا
د ْﻦﻋ َﻊَﺟَر ْنﺈﻓ ، َﺮْﺤﺒﻟا ِﻪِﺑ اﻮُﻄﱠﺳﻮَﺗَو لﺎﻘﻓ ِﻪِﺑ اﻮُﺒهَﺬﻓ ، ُﻩﻮُﻓﺬْﻗﺎَﻓ ﱠﻻإو ِﻪِﻨﻳ : ْتَﺄَﻔَﻜﻧﺎﻓ ، ﺖْﺌِﺷ ﺎَﻤﺑ ْﻢﻬﻴِﻨﻔآا ﱠﻢُﻬﱠﻠﻟا
ﻚِﻠَﻤﻟا ﻰَﻟِإ ﻲِﺸْﻤﻳ َءﺎَﺟو ، اﻮﻗِﺮﻐﻓ ُﺔﻨﻴﻔﱠﺴﻟا ُﻢِﻬِﺑ . ُﻚِﻠﻤﻟا ُﻪَﻟ َلﺎﻘﻓ : لﺎﻘﻓ ؟ َﻚﺑﺎَﺤﺻَأ َﻞَﻌَﻓ ﺎﻣ : ﻰَﻟﺎﻌﺗ ﷲا ُﻢﻬﻴِﻧﺎﻔآ .
َﻘﺑ َﺖْﺴﻟ ﻚﱠﻧإ ِﻚِﻠَﻤﻠﻟ َلﺎﻘﻓ ِﻪِﺑ َكﺮُﻣﺁ ﺎﻣ َﻞﻌْﻔﺗ ﻰﱠﺘﺣ ﻲِﻠِﺗﺎ . لﺎﻗ : لﺎﻗ ؟ َﻮُه ﺎﻣ : ، ٍﺪﺣاو ٍﺪﻴﻌَﺻ ﻲﻓ سﺎﱠﻨﻟا ُﻊَﻤْﺠﺗ
ﻞُﻗ ﱠﻢُﺛ ِسْﻮَﻘﻟا ِﺪﺒَآ ﻲﻓ ِﻢْﻬﱠﺴﻟا ِﻊﺿ ﱠﻢُﺛ ، ﻲِﺘﻧﺎَﻨآ ْﻦِﻣ ًﺎﻤْﻬﺳ ﺬُﺧ ﱠﻢُﺛ ، ٍعْﺬﺟ ﻰَﻠَﻋ ﻲﻨُﺒُﻠﺼﺗو : ﱠﻢُﺛ ِمَﻼُﻐﻟا ﱢبر ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا ِﻢْﺴﺑ
َذإ َﻚﱠﻧﺈﻓ ، ﻲِﻨِﻣرا ﻲِﻨﺘْﻠَﺘَﻗ َﻚِﻟَذ َﺖْﻠَﻌَﻓ ا . ْﻦﻣ ًﺎﻤْﻬﺳ َﺬَﺧَأ ﱠﻢُﺛ ، ٍعْﺬﺟ ﻰَﻠَﻋ ُﻪَﺒَﻠﺻو ، ٍﺪِﺣاو ٍﺪﻴﻌَﺻ ﻲﻓ سﺎﱠﻨﻟا ﻊَﻤَﺠﻓ
َلﺎَﻗ ﱠﻢُﺛ ،ِسْﻮَﻘﻟا ِﺪِﺒآ ﻲﻓ َﻢﻬﱠﺴﻟا َﻊَﺿو ﱠﻢُﺛ ، ِﻪِﺘَﻧﺎَﻨآ : ، ِﻪِﻏْﺪُﺻ ﻲﻓ ُﻢﻬﱠﺴﻟا َﻊَﻗﻮَﻓ ُﻩﺎَﻣر ﱠﻢُﺛ ، ِمﻼُﻐﻟا ﱢبَر ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻢْﺴِﺑ
َﻓ َتﺎَﻤﻓ ِﻪِﻏْﺪُﺻ ﻲﻓ ُﻩَﺪﻳ َﻊَﺿﻮ . ُسﺎﱠﻨﻟا َلﺎَﻘﻓ : ُﻪَﻟ ُﻞﻴِﻘَﻓ ُﻚﻠَﻤﻟا َﻰِﺗُﺄَﻓ ، ِمَﻼُﻐﻟا ﱢبَﺮِﺑ ﺎﱠﻨَﻣﺁ : ْﺪَﻗ رَﺬْﺤﺗ ﺖْﻨُآ ﺎﻣ ﺖْﻳَأَرَأ
َكُرﺬَﺣ ﻚِﺑ َلَﺰَﻧ ﻪﱠﻠﻟاَو . َﻦﻣﺁ ْﺪﻗ ُسﺎﱠﻨﻟا . ا ﺎﻬﻴِﻓ َمِﺮْﺿأَو َتﱠﺪُﺨﻓ ﻚﻜﱢﺴﻟا ِﻩاَﻮْﻓﺄﺑ ِدوُﺪﺧﻷﺎِﺑ َﺮَﻣَﺄﻓ َلﺎﻗو ُناﺮﻴﻨﻟ : ْﻢَﻟ ْﻦَﻣ
ُﻪَﻟ َﻞﻴﻗ ْوأ ﺎَﻬﻴِﻓ ُﻩﻮُﻤﺤْﻗﺄﻓ ِﻪِﻨﻳد ْﻦﻋ ْﻊَﺟْﺮﻳ : ْنأ ﺖَﺴَﻋﺎَﻘﺘَﻓ ، ﺎَﻬﻟ ﱞﻲِﺒَﺻ ﺎَﻬَﻌﻣو ٌةَأَﺮﻣا ِتءﺎَﺟ ﻰﱠﺘﺣ اﻮُﻠَﻌﻔﻓ ، ْﻢﺤَﺘْﻗا
ُمَﻼُﻐﻟا ﺎَﻬَﻟ لﺎﻘﻓ ، ﺎَﻬﻴِﻓ َﻊﻘَﺗ : ﱢﻖَﺤﻟا ﻲَﻠَﻋ َﻚﱠﻧِﺈَﻓ يِﺮِﺒﺻا ْﻩﺎﱠﻣأ ﺎﻳ « َﻠْﺴُﻣ ُﻩاَور ٌﻢ.
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