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َﺔَﺒْﻴﺴُﻧ َﺔﱠﻴِﻄَﻋ ﱢمأ ْﻦَﻋو
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ﺎَﻬِﺤﺘَﻓَو ِنﻮﱡﻨﻟا ﱢﻢَﻀِﺑ
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ْﺖَﻟﺎَﻗ ﺎَﻬْﻨَﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر
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ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُلﻮُﺳَر ﺎَﻨﻴَﻠَﻋ َﺬَﺧأ
حﻮُﻨَﻧ ﻻ ْنأ ﺔﻌْﻴَﺒﻟا َﺪْﻨِﻋ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ
.
ﻪﻴﻠﻋ ٌﻖﻔﺘﻣ
.
1661
. Umm `Atiyyah (May Allah be pleased with her) said:
At the time of giving the pledge of allegiance, the
Messenger of Allah (PBUH) took from us an oath that we would not wail
.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Commentary:
Wailing is a bad habit of Jahiliyyah which a Muslim must avoid.
1662
ِنﺎﻤْﻌﱡﻨﻟا ِﻦَﻋَو
َلﺎَﻗ ﺎَﻤُﻬْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ٍﺮﻴﺸﺑ ِﻦﺑ
:
، ُﻪْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر َﺔَﺣاوَر ِﻦﺑ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ِﺪْﺒﻋ ﻰَﻠﻋ ﻲِﻤْﻏُأ
ُلﻮُﻘَﺗو ، ﻲﻜﺒﺗ ُﻪُﺘْﺧُأ ْﺖَﻠَﻌَﺠَﻓ
:
اَﺬَآاو ، اَﺬآاو ، ُﻩَﻼﺒﺟاو
:
ِﻪْﻴَﻠﻋ ُدﱢﺪﻌُﺗ
.
َقﺎَﻓأ َﻦﻴِﺣ لﺎَﻘﻓ
:
ﻲﻟ ﻞﻴِﻗ ﱠﻻإ ًﺎﺌْﻴﺷ ِﺖْﻠُﻗ ﺎﻣ
:
؟ َﻚِﻟَﺬَآ َﺖْﻧأ
،
يِرﺎَﺨُﺒﻟا ُﻩاور
.
1662.
An-Nu`man bin Bashir (May Allah be pleased with them) said:
When `Abdullah bin Rawahah (May Allah be
pleased with him) became unconscious, his sister began to weep and shout: "Alas! For the mountain among men.
Alas! for such and such (mentioning his virtuous qualities).'' When he recovered his consciousness, he said: "I was
asked (disapprovingly, by the angels) about everything you said concerning me whether I am as you said
.''
[Al-Bukhari].
Commentary:
We learn from this Hadith that one can be taken to task for bewailing somebody's death, especially
for such qualities which are attributed to him by the mourners. Angels would rebuke and question him about the
validity of the praise. Since the deceased did not possess those qualities, the wailing becomes a cause of reproach
and reproof of the mourner.
1663
لﺎَﻗ ﺎَﻤُﻬْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ﺮﻤُﻋ ﻦﺑا ﻦَﻋَو
:
ُلﻮُﺳر ُﻩﺎَﺗَﺄَﻓ ، ىَﻮْﻜَﺷ ٍُﻪْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر َةَدﺎﺒُﻋ ُﻦﺑ ُﺪْﻌﺳ ﻰَﻜَﺘْﺷا
ْﺣﱠﺮﻟا ِﺪْﺒﻋ َﻊﻣ ُﻩُدﻮُﻌﻳ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا
ٍدﻮُﻌْﺴﻣ ﻦﺑ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ِﺪْﺒﻋو ،صﺎﱠﻗو ﻲﺑأ ِﻦﺑ ِﺪْﻌَﺳو ، ٍفْﻮﻋ ِﻦﺑ ِﻦﻤ
َلﺎﻘَﻓ ٍﺔﻴْﺸَﻏ ﻲﻓ ُﻩﺪﺟو ، ِﻪْﻴﻠﻋ َﻞَﺧد ﺎﻤﻠﻓ ، ْﻢﻬْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر
:
» ؟ﻰَﻀُﻗَأ
اﻮُﻟﺎَﻗ
:
ﻪﱠﻠﻟا َلﻮُﺳر ﺎﻳ ﻻ
.
ُلﻮُﺳر ﻰَﻜَﺒَﻓ
ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا
.
َءﺎﻜُﺑ ُمْﻮَﻘْﻟا ىأَر ﺎﱠﻤﻠَﻓ
َلﺎَﻗ ، اْﻮـَﻜَﺑ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻲﺒﻨﻟا
:
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ﱠنإ ؟ نﻮُﻌﻤْﺴَﺗ َﻻأ
اَﺬﻬِﺑ ُبﱢﺬﻌُﻳ ْﻦِﻜَﻟو ، ِﺐْﻠَﻘْﻟا ِنْﺰُﺤِﺑ ﻻو ، ِﻦْﻴَﻌْﻟا ِﻊْﻣﺪِﺑ ُبﱢﺬَﻌُﻳ ﻻ ُﻪﱠﻠﻟا
«
ِﻪِﻧﺎﺴِﻟ ﻰﻟإ َرﺎَﺷأَو
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ُﻢَﺣْﺮَﻳ ْوأ
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ﻪﻴﻠﻋ ٌﻖﻔﺘﻣ
.
1663.
Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) visited Sa`d bin `Ubadah
during his illness. He was accompanied by `Abdur-Rahman bin `Auf, Sa`d bin Abu Waqqas and `Abdullah bin
Mas`ud (May Allah be pleased with them). When they entered his house, they found him unconscious. The
Messenger of Allah asked, "
Has he died?
'' They replied: "No, O Messenger of Allah.'' Hearing this the Messenger of
Allah (PBUH) began to weep. When his Companions saw this, they also began to weep too. He said, "
Listen
attentively: Allah does not punish for the shedding of tears or the grief of the heart, but takes to task or show mercy
because of the utterances of this (and he pointed to his tongue).
''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Commentary:
We learn from this Hadith that grief and tears which occur involuntarily are not forbidden because
they are quite natural, but if one starts crying and bewailing on such occasions, he will be sinful. The only
permissible way of expressing one's grief in words is to say "
Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji`un
'' which means "
Truly!
To Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.
'' (2:156).
To visit the sick is a meritorious act as well as a right of a Muslim upon another Muslim. Depending upon the
occasion, one is also recommended to offer sincere advice and Islamic teachings.
1664
َلﺎﻗ ُﻪْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ﱢيﺮَﻌْﺷﻷا ٍﻚِﻟﺎﻣ ﻲﺑأ ْﻦَﻋو
:
ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُلﻮُﺳَر َلﺎَﻗ
:
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ْﻢَﻟ اَذإ ُﺔَﺤِﺋﺎﱠﻨﻟا
ٍبَﺮﺟ ْﻦِﻣ ٌعْرَدو ،ٍناَﺮِﻄَﻗ ْﻦِﻣ ٌلﺎَﺑْﺮِﺳ ﺎﻬْﻴَﻠَﻋو ِﺔﻣﺎﻴِﻘْﻟا َمْﻮﻳ ُمﺎَﻘُﺗ ﺎَﻬِﺗْﻮَﻣ ﻞْﺒَﻗ ْﺐُﺘﺗ
«
ﻢﻠﺴﻣ ُﻩاور
.
1664.
Abu Malik Al-Ash`ari (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "
If the
wailing woman does not repent before she dies, she will be made to stand on the Day of Resurrection wearing a
garment of pitch and a garment of scabies (Allah knows the nature thereof)
.''
[Muslim].
Commentary:
We learn from this Hadith that wailing is a major sin and if one does not make sincere repentance for
it, Allah does not grant pardon for it, one will be made to suffer a torment of its own kind.
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