1665
ْﺖَﻟﺎَﻗ تﺎﻌﻳﺎﺒُﻤﻟا َﻦِﻣ ٍةَأَﺮْﻣا ِﻦَﻋ ﱢﻲِﻌِﺑﺎﱠﺘﻟا ِﺪﻴِﺳُأ ﻲﺑأ ِﻦﺑ ِﺪﻴﺳُأ ْﻦﻋو
:
ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُلﻮُﺳَر ﺎَﻨْﻴَﻠﻋ ﺬﺧأ ﺎَﻤﻴِﻓ َنﺎَآ
ِﻪﻴِﻓ ُﻪَﻴِﺼْﻌَﻧ ﻻ ْنأ ﺎَﻨْﻴَﻠﻋ َﺬﺧأ يِﺬﱠﻟا ِفوُﺮْﻌﻤﻟا ﻲﻓ ، ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا
:
ْﺪَﻧ َﻻو ،ًﺎﻬْﺟَو َﺶِﻤْﺨَﻧ ﻻ ْنَأ
ﻻو ، َﻼْﻳو َﻮُﻋ
ًاﺮْﻌَﺷ ﺮُﺜْﻨَﻧ ﻻ ْنأو ، ًﺎﺒْﻴﺟ ﱠﻖُﺸَﻧ
.
ٍﻦﺴﺣ ٍدﺎﻨْﺳﺈﺑ َدُواد ﻮﺑأ ُﻩاوَر
.
1665.
Asid bin Abu Usaid reported: A woman who had taken a pledge of allegiance at the hand of the Messenger of
Allah (PBUH) said: "
Among the matters in respect of which we gave the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) the pledge
not to disobey him in any Ma`ruf [i.e., all that Islam ordains (V:60:12)] was that we should not slap our faces,
bewail, tear our clothes up and tear out our hair (in grief)
.''
[Abu Dawud].
Commentary:
The modes of expressing grief mentioned in this Hadith were in vogue in the Arab society of the
Period of Ignorance. Muslim women are strictly forbidden from them and they must abstain from them.
1666
َلﺎَﻗ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا َلﻮُﺳَر نأ ُﻪْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ﻰَﺳﻮُﻣ ﻲﺑأ ْﻦَﻋو
:
»
،ُتﻮُﻤَﻳ ٍﺖﱢﻴﻣ ْﻦِﻣ ﺎﻣ
ُلﻮُﻘَﻴَﻓ ، ْﻢﻬﻴآﺎﺑ ُمﻮُﻘَﻴَﻓ
:
ِﻪِﻧاَﺰَﻬْﻠﻳ ِنﺎَﻜَﻠَﻣ ِﻪِﺑ ﻞﱢآُو ﱠﻻإ ﻚِﻟَذ ﻮْﺤَﻧ َوأ ُﻩاﺪﱢﻴَﺳاو ، ُﻩﻼﺒﺟاَو
:
، ؟ َﺖﻨُآ اَﺬَﻜَهأ
«
ُﻩاَوَر
لﺎﻗو يﺬِﻣْﺮﱢﺘﻟا
:
ٌﻦَﺴَﺣ ٌﺚﻳﺪﺣ
.
«
ُﺰْﻬﱠﻠﻟا
«
:
ِرﺪﱠﺼﻟا ﻲﻓ ِﺪَﻴْﻟا ِﻊْﻤُﺠﺑ ُﻊْﻓﱠﺪﻟا
.
1666.
Abu Musa (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "
If anyone dies and
the mourner gets up and says: `Alas! For the mountain among men. Alas! For the chief ...' and such like, Allah will
put two angels in charge of him who will beat on the breast and ask him (disapproving): `Were you like that?
' ''
[At-Tirmidhi].
1667
َلﺎَﻗ ُﻪْﻨَﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر َةﺮْﻳﺮُه ﻲﺑأ ْﻦﻋو
: َلﺎَﻗ
ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُلﻮُﺳَر
:
»
ﺎَﻤُه ِسﺎﱠﻨﻟا ﻲﻓ ِنﺎَﺘﻨْﺛا
ٌﺮْﻔُآ ْﻢِﻬِﺑ
:
ِﺖﱢﻴَﻤﻟا ﻰﻠَﻋ ﺔَﺣﺎﻴﱢﻨﻟاو ، ِﺐَﺴﱠﻨﻟا ﻲﻓ ُﻦْﻌﱠﻄﻟا
«
ﻢﻠﺴﻣ ُﻩاور
.
1667.
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "
Two things are
signs of disbelief on the part of those who indulge in them: Slandering one's lineage and wailing over the dead
.''
[Muslim].
Commentary:
This Hadith has already been mentioned before [see the Hadith under Chapter 275]. Both the evils
pointed out here are those sins which invite Allah's Wrath and will certainly take one out of the fold of Islam if one
considers them lawful. Hence a person who practices them, revives the evils of the infidels. May Allah save us from
such evils.
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